SEVEN ATTITUDES THAT CAN MAKE ANYONE BETTER

These items are used to illustrate how these different attitudes reflect in our personality. Attitude is the way we behave or how we feel or think about something or people. Because our feelings or thoughts reflects in our actions; this illustration best exemplify how these seven different attitudes attribute to our personality trait and how pronounce and flexible they are. Like honesty, it’s something that most visible in people when you engage in a relationship or business with them. How far anyone can walk through life is proportional to how much they believe in themselves. To become better every day is to seek knowledge continuously, and reading is one of such ways to acquire knowledge. Focus belt you up to consistency, when you keep reading you continue growing.

WILLINGNESS TO LET GO

  There are some attitude that can ruin ones day, event or life without your knowing. These attitudes imprison the mind; some of these attitudes kill dreams and aspirations. One of such attitude is "holding on and holding back for too long". Know when to let go and keep moving. "Forgive and grow". Forgiveness triggers Joy and Joy triggers creativity and Creativity brings about productivity. A life without joy or happiness victimizes someone. Just let go of that situation; Yelling on that car that split water on you, on you way for an interview is a bad attitude. "It can ruin your day", just let go of that situation beyond your control. Since you have no control over it, that means; you can't change it, so just let go and move on. Always have courage and faith to trust and to begin again. Pain that you never give attention you never feel. Your attention drives your feelings, because your sight drives your attention. You are not a victim; you have to stop seeing yourself as one. To be better; don't hold grudges and don't harbor anger. Resentment is imprisonment, don't allow anyone or situation make you feel resentful. No matter what, remember: "Nature and life only wrestle with us as friends and not as enemies". Trouble don't come to you because you are weak, it comes because you are capable to redirect it to where it truly belong. Trouble has no place in the lives of a man that is meek and smart. That because, he sees the obstacles as a path and not as a challenge. Opportunities don't just happen. Someone has to create the event that will create the opportunity. But to create a positive event or opportunity one has to know that joy is a choice. Opportunities have their folded trials that need to be unveiled through the choice to; “let go of everything". Let go the trials, they are only a clue to something. Everyone has the ability to choose to be happy or sad, Joy is a choice. Have control over your attitude and the way you respond to situation. The way you response to situations determine their effect on you, either positively or negatively. To choose to be happy always, you must make a choice to always let go. Happiness is a state of mind. "To Let go" it triggers forgiveness, forgiveness triggers Joy and freedom, and freedom triggers creativity. Creativity makes talent beautiful. Talents, Joy and strength grew faster in those that forgive faster and never hold back. Holding back is a weight to life. It destroys positive thought, hampers creativity and at the end makes you unproductive. Lack of forgiveness creates negative imagination that can lead one to unrest and lack of focus. Forgive and grow. When you let go, you flourish and produce good fruits either as an individual, group or as an organization.

BE HONEST

  Even why men struggle everyday with the degree of their honesty, the benefit of being honest cannot be over emphasized. Honesty has its way of building great relationship, great business ties, trust and confident among people. It earns you integrity and clear definition of purpose when in contact with people both in business and real life situation. Honesty is telling others the truth. Honesty is more than not lying, it’s telling what have been written as truth and not what you know to be truth. Truths are always told and it’s not what one known or assumes to be truth. If there was no speaking or writing, there wouldn’t be any truth about anything. Honesty is probably one key factor in every great relationship, it all about truth; telling people the truth, speaking the truth, living the truth and loving in true. Been entirely honest to yourself is an exercise that builds your integrity and confident. Integrity is telling you the truth. Honesty and integrity are absolutely essential for success in life. Anyone can develop both integrity and honesty but he or she has to decide, because often times being honest reduces your friends and make one awkward in the mist of unrealistic people. Though life is a choice; everyone is expected to choose wisely. The choice of being honest can save you a lot of time from remembering the lies. Being honest doesn’t hurt anyone, but lies hurt only the person that tells it in the long run. Don't be edged when people frown at you for being honest, every champion of today was once a contender that refused to give up. Better to be honest than to be impressive in lies. If you truly want to become wise then desire honesty. Honesty is the first chapter in the journey of the wise, because if you lose your integrity you will lose your identity. It makes you lose your sensitivity and as well lose your dignity. Honesty is integrity; it builds your modesty and security over every issues of life. It’s wise we make developing our integrity and honesty a priority, because it pays off greatly at the end. There is one popular saying; “Honesty is before honor". To live a peaceful and honorable life you must make the choice to be honest. Honesty connects your feelings and your words; and once you speak, it emits light into the heart of those around and that makes your words acceptable. For honesty to be well accepted it has to be addressed with politeness. There are ways you can be blunt and truthful yet will not go down well with many and will not be accepted even when is the truth. So, the way of expression matter most times. There is no reason to cause rain in a raining season. To make peace you must love peace and truth. Honesty is best appreciated in business transactions, mutual relationship between people and friends. There is no need to try to be perfect through lies. Human beings are flesh and blood, perfection is their constant challenge, it’s easier to be honest than trying to be perfect.

DON'T STRESS OVER ANYTHING

  In order be truly happy; one must be emotionally healthy and for one to be emotionally healthy he must discipline his thought. It is generally agreed that positive thinking produce positive result. Yet positive thinking is subject to the thoughts of the mind where all the issues of life emanate from. No matter the situation if you are positive you will have a solution. Solution rather don't come from worrying. It must be conceived and thought over, that is why the mind needs to be disciplined. "Consistent positive thinking is as a result of disciplined mind". Positive thought produce positive outcome, but the mind is always subject to two things in every situation; Negative and positive. It is left for one to choose the positive and concentrate on the positive alone. Challenges come to you, hits badly and teach you something. Never allow challenge define you rather define the challenge. When you allow your mind to be subject to the happenings around, then the challenge at the moment will define you. Only those that accept failure allowed challenge to define them. Don't worry so much; most often when you are not thinking about a situation is when the solution comes. "Every solution comes through observation not the willingness of men". If you are smart enough you will understand a lot, by being observant. Everyone that has attained greatness has failed in more than one thing previously. Failure makes the wise smarter. Never yield to situation or allow a situation to define you. There is always something to do, as long as there is breath. Worries are bad signs that lead to regret and failure. A focus adventurer doesn’t consider failure as an option. They let go and keep moving forward. "Worrying draws their victims back to yesterday". To create a positive surrounding one has to put off worry and its elements. Take things one after another and wait for the next thing. Worrying over situation or something doesn’t even change it or build your confident. It only victimizes you and subjects your mind to control from your surroundings. Don't sweat over issues, doesn't mean you will not get it done. The needful will be done, but one need to be relaxed in thinking to have the best of idea to surmount the challenge. Once the mind is merry, the thinking will be positive. Worry is a weight to its victims and it’s capable to decline emotional health, thereby leading its victim to believe that they are victims when they are victors.

DEFINE YOURSELF

  There is nothing as valuable in life as remaining congruent in your personal life, in your profession and in your business. The dilemma before many every day is been compelled to sacrifice their personal values and ethics to reach some goals. The ignorant never fine themselves. A person never gain so much of personal or professional growth opportunity by knowing less, rather by understanding more than others on personal level. To well define self, one must accept the responsibility to become better than he was yesterday. Your true competitors in life are not those around you, but your yesterday and days before. Define yourself even in the mist of challenges. The best place to grow is in the valley. If you can grow in the valley you can grow better on the mountain top. The only journey in life is the journey within. A man is defined by his thought, everything he must become, he must conceive. It is said that you know a man; not by his answers or suggestions but by his questions. Everyone heading somewhere will always seek for the clues to get there. Questioning is the easiest way to seek for direction. Out of the abundant of the heart the mouth speaks. It’s necessary to avoid erroneous people if you want to have clarity in life. Clarity is strength; the clarity of purpose defines you. We are a product of our thought and our thought is a product of our believes, that believe is a product of our understanding. We are what we repeatedly do “excellence is not an act, but a habit. Before you define yourself, you must know what you are made of. Ask yourself the following question; who i am? What do i want to become? Until you know who you are, you can’t define where you are going. Whatever you want out of life is within you. You have the power to recreate your thinking to what you want to become, the power is in you. Always have a picture of what you want to become and the attributes to suit its character and requirement. Human have only two options of attitude; positive and negative. Everything in life is learn-able; you can learn to become a better person by choosing to be positive, the choice is yours. Self-awareness gives birth to self-definition, strength and weakness alike, once you either positive or negative about them.

READ OFTEN AND READ EVERYTHING

  Whenever we read a good write up or book, somewhere in our world a door is open to allow more light into our lives. By reading any material, we gain access to the depth of the understanding and wisdom of the author. Reading grants one access to tape virtue and knowledge from the materials we read. There are different forms of reading, but all write up is to pass information. Either you are inspired, motivated, entertained or exemplified; its major aim is to get across information. Information is light; the more informed you are, the better your brightness. Light enhance the perfection of any pathway. When your light is consistent in a journey your destination is guarantee. Reading enhances our confident through different forms of resource materials in any field of life. It inspires us and drives our understanding. It provides the needed directions when we cultivate the habit. Reading is a habit that anyone can develop. To develop a habit we have to be consistent. Often times only things we enjoy, we try to make a habit. And funny enough many people don’t enjoy reading. Reading often can be learn, every habit is gradually learn. One can start by reading few things, stay longer trying to understand the drive and direction of the writer. Interest is what drives any habit, while curiosity drives interest. Often times our only aim of reading a write up could be let me found out what this is all about; often we find ourselves loving it and enjoying it. This is why we dare to read everything and then through reading we can understand if the material will make us emotionally healthy or breaks our emotional health. We choose what we read, but we can scan through without developing a deep interest or attention. Often time’s curiosity leads to adventuring and clues to solve a particular challenge. It’s necessary and sometimes leads to opportunities by reading everything. Reading is a privilege developed out of interest and these privileges leads to freedom when made a habit. Reading as a habit brings about knowledge and freedom. It requires application of discipline. Discipline is freedom, but majority thinks discipline is restriction and so could not be seen as freedom. But you know what; undisciplined person is a slave to his emotions, passions, drives, appetites and mood etcetera. Why discipline enhances our control, our drive, our passion, our senses and strength etcetera. Your lack of it is lack of freedom in the actual sense of life. Discipline of self involves acting according to what you think instead of what you feel in the moment. It involves sacrificing the pleasure and thrill of the moment for what matter most in life. Do not train a child to learn by force or harshness; but direct them to it by what amuses their mind, so you can better discover with accuracy their peculiarity and the genius of each. Only by reading or learning about a thing you can understand it.

BE SMART

   The rate of assimilation of an individual determines his smartness. The more we advanced in any endeavor the smarter we become. Smartness it’s the intelligent level of an individual, it can also be seen as been clever. To be clever is to have deep Understanding or full understanding about a thing within the least possible time. We are all smart enough. You don’t judge a fish by his inability to climb a tree, nor judge the cow for his inability to fly. In fact, we are geniuses. Each of us needs all of us and all of us needs each of us. If we found the best way to collate our different geniuses, in application our height will be beyond any assumption. It’s so necessary to get smart; some assume smartness to be carefulness. “They say the easiest way to be smart is by been careful”. That not true. Smart people make mistakes too, but they are very quick to observe things generally. They are quick to understand also; that makes them smart. They never take opportunities for granted, even they fail they keep fate strong. There is no thought of laziness in their minds. They are consumed in their thoughts; which blossom their intellect and imagination. Perfection is achieved when there is nothing to take away, not when there is anything more to add. We can do anything but not everything. Being smart is not about knowing everything. The richest man is not someone who has the most, is the one who need the least. There are limitless advantages of being continuously advancing in any endeavor. Smartness is continuously enhancing ones intellectual growth. There are activities that enhance our intellect, like; cumulative learning, reading, games, regular body exercise, commitment to learning new languages, solving puzzles, thinking through and calmness etcetera. When you are committed to doing things like enlisted you get smarter by every day. Anytime the brain is stress through learning a difficult task one gets smarter. So, the more the brain is challenged with new task and continuously we get smarter. We are capable of a lot of invention, if only we challenged ourselves more by every opportunity. Often times, people see most situation as to be very challenging, they don’t even dare. To get smarter you must do more things. Your willingness and desire to dare things builds your confident with time and makes you smarter. It’s the perfect connection of the brain when solving a challenge makes a man smart. Our brain is prompt to action whenever we show smartness. When our attention is strong our smartness will be appreciated. A great person is ahead of his time, the smart make something out of it, and the blockhead, sets themselves against it.

BELIEVE YOU CAN

  It’s efficacious to know when to plug in and unplugged with the world of actions and excitement. Its conception creates a brilliant outcome that builds one confident with much needed energy to face the odds. Confidence is generated as a result of concise believes. Believing that you can no matter what before you or besides you is confident. Those who love themselves understand who they are, no matter what you think about them; they are not afraid to go after what they want. They patiently work through fear and self-doubt. They choose the strenuous life, not to fear the ambitious journey or the commitment required to be happy and successful. Believing you can helps to generate the energy required to make huge contributions in any endeavor. It keys us into maturity, through deep happiness that come from hard work, real life challenges and through surviving real storms. It regenerates confident that proceeds with the resilient to erroneous opinions, discouragement and demoralization. Believing in oneself cocoons us against vulnerability and mane us with courage to show the world what we are. Our level of openness determines our relationship with others, believing you can make you more confident to be open to others. You decide what you want through attitude. Believing in ourselves makes us feel much alive, we have great empathy for others and we are ever willing to give back. It enables us to create our own happiness through consistently disciplining our mind. It provides us with the sense of independent and helps us to embrace who we truly are. It instigates us to dream and it propels our focus. It helps us to generate obsess required to go all head on. Believing you can is one great decision that we make from our subconscious mind, and it reflects in our consciousness to make things happen. Without believing you can’t persevere through the odds. Almost everything and barely all endeavors have their own challenges, but believing that you can, is profoundly needful for achieving success. Your believe builds your confident and confident has its own way of popping up clues that can guard you. In creativity; confidence inspires creativity and believes creates confident. To have a deep sense of believe in oneself, one has to value time and knowledge. They prepare us toward building the confident that generates believes. Before a student can be confident in an examination, she must have prepared adequately to believe that her success is guaranteed.