SIX WAYS ATTITUDE CAN BE INDOMITABLE

It’s obvious that all human have got limits, but when we talk about perseverance, resilience or adaptation some people are more resistant than others. Some are indomitable by tough times, they are hardly moved by challenges, which enables them to win always and some of those attitude they embraced are listed below.

KNOW WHEN TO ENGAGE AND DIS-ENGAGE

Living like you existed, to survive and to be in place are different states, situation or conditions for human adaptation. But mostly is good to know "when and how" to engage and dis-engage. If you know how to engage in a process, you establish attitudes that prompt you to events or situations out of curiosity or adventure. Instead of changing from being your real self to adapt in uneventful, yet with foreseeable danger, you better dis-engage.  Adaptation is not militated with consistency of attitude, but changes in needed areas. You can still adapt being you, similarity don’t define uniqueness, there is need to be you, in order to conceive the personal believe to dis-engage, you have to be you. Believe, thought and needs, are same reasons people engaged or dis-engage. You need to build yours, be you, and have your uniqueness if you wish to build resilience. Don’t engage to dis-engage others wrongly, if it benefits others and make you happy is worthy of engagement. Nothing and no one have ever lived that was loved by all. It’s only after time history is written. Live to make things better than they were. It’s normal, if everyone don’t have same concept, that why is more important to know when to engage and dis-engage. You engage best at its time, yet at its time majority will not accept it at first. Pulling on at needs and pulling off at wrong creates that right attitude that slate ones inevitably indomitable. Understandably, efforts and weight of object with time determines the distance an events or process can take. But it’s very important to know when to apply the required effort. Effort applied at intervals creates momentum for more meaningful effort. Believe there is no stabilized time to do anything, but there is suitable time for everything. When time and opportunity meets you either marvel or yell, certainly it does, but not in the absent of willpower. To engage and dis-engage you need willpower. Best time to dis-engage is when willpower diminishes with so much energy, and then you are convinced it’s time to dis-engage, just dis-engage. Don’t assume another time, with pressure from; environment and the system, etcetera. Dis-engagement is not weakness, rather strength for better preparation. If dis-engagement is not purposeful is ignorance or as a result of weakness. Changing norms and believe to suit certain needs or demands in a system or process is worthy of dis-engagement. Believe is true, truth is acceptable and worthy of engaging. Reality and truth builds the core element for socialization. Socialization is the rudiment of friendship and life. Things that can never be destroyed are things that matter most and everything that matters centers on trust. Calculated efforts are disdain by attitude. To be indomitable you have to know when is necessary and very unnecessary to engage and dis-engage.

MAKE SOLUTION YOUR INTEREST

Every situation both positive and negative seeks for man’s attention. Its either you choose to solve it or leave it, it’s either you choose to cry over it or dare it, it’s either you choose to avoid it or challenge it, the choice is yours. But the knowledge and interest on the solution alone put you in a positive light to withstand it. The corrosive harm or damaging effect negative thought does to our zeal and determination when confronted with, is enough to deviate completely from revisiting the problem on the mind. Making solution your interest, means; you well understood the problem and decide not to over analyst it. Focusing on way out, makes the solution come faster and build up your resilience if you make it a habit. When your attention and interest is on solution all that matters to you is way out. Negative situation don’t just sit quiet, it calls often for attention. When faced with difficult circumstance what matter is not the situation, rather how to get out of the situation. Series of events is what pile up history. Complaining had never changed anything, it only create worry. Often, majority are tempted to think more of the problem than solution, it leads to depression. Instead of spending your time thinking on how bad things are, think about how good they can become. Don’t have people prove problems to you, all in the name of being honest. There is no honesty in over emphasizing situation. If you are not talking the solution, you are talking away your time. Create room for opinion, even criticism, but don’t respond to criticism if you don’t want to think about the problem. Things you respond to are often things you think about. If you don’t want to think about the problem don’t respond to its criticism. Rather respond to suggestions that can resolve it. Once you are sure of a solution definitely you be moved to put it down. This builds your basics for better resolution. Every thought we conceive is either making us better or destroying our confident. Positive thought, its solution minded. It makes you concentrate on only what matters. No matter where you are or who you are; you can choose what to think about, and if you choose right, you will live well. Your life and what happens to it, is determine by what you think. Your thought, holds your future. Nothing is more relaxing than having a solution even before the problem arise. Only a solution minded people experience it. You can have anything you want, if only you can give up the belief that it’s not possible. Everything we walk through is powered by our mind, challenges or success alike. Once the mind says yes you can, every other thing in you will comply. The situation is only magnified in the mind, if you quit thinking the problem, naturally you start thinking solution. Positive thought generate positive feeling and attract solution and positive life. Be positive and remain positive, little positive thought is much better than any negative thought. Solution doesn’t come from negativity. Thinking solution always draws you closer to it, it builds your believe and make you more positioned to attain it. Solution thinkers are indomitable and indisposed. They have firm focus on the solution and very certain about their chances.

HAVE A CLING FOCUS ON THE OBJECTIVE

Anything worthy of doing is worth doing well. If you are not obsessed about that objective or goal, the least of obstacles will divert your focus. In anything that will manifest greatness; understanding the mission and its main objective builds confident. Those that actually understand the gain of daring, enjoys the sweetness of being brave. Challenges, strenuous situation or circumstances, tough times, problems of any kind; they are all aimed at distracting you or to divert your focus. Have a cling attention on that objective, it will certainly happen. Once your attention is there and your mind and your thinking are fixed to it, your actions and activities will be towards it, you be indomitable and indisputable of certainty. Every sector, all discipline has their challenges and strenuous moments; but if your focus remains on your end benefit, you will develop unwavering determination to pursue. To keep your focus on the objective or goals, the goals must interest you. The goals must be something you really want. It must be something you hungry for, which will be the bases for your motivation. If anything or everything has time and season; that simply means life has something to do with period of time. If this is true, then “life is a race”. In a car race for instant, drivers objectify their purpose, not just for the pleasure of driving but to win the race. Same applicable to human and his existence, everyday is a new opportunity to begin anew; meaning there is something to always do. Objectives had never been a scared commodity. There is always a purpose, but when the thought is good the objective will be good, with focus and thought of only the good, the objective or goal will be fast achievable. Inspired reason motivates or encourages us to keep on when the muscles are weak. When your eyes are focus on the goal or objective you only quit when you are done. Your strength are always renew at your thought of what lies ahead. This attitude of keeping the eyes on the objective makes you resilient and indomitable. It’s the attitude that places you above challenges. Your focus on the objective is strength all through the process. It’s a reminder of what is at stake; it builds your willpower and builds you up internally against obstacles. Great things don’t appear or sound great at their beginning, but if focus is clanged on the objective or goal there is certainty for greatness. A cling focus is an attitude that makes you consecrated, indisputable and indomitable. Keep focus on the objective, every champion of today was once a contender yesterday.

THINK ONLY WHAT IS GOOD

Our greatest inner power as human is the power to control our thought; the same power helps to control our lives. What we feed the mind is what manifests in our lives. We have got the power to decide and to determine what our mind conceives, this power place us in charge of events and our lives. Instead of thinking the problem and allowing its tension to weigh you down into depression, better you begin to consider possible options to solution. The thought of good, it’s uplifting and solution oriented. It’s positive and brings peace to lives and the mind. Good thinking enriches everyone connected or existing within it. The actions that proceed from our thought if bad it’s as a result of negative thought; when good is as a result of good thinking. Positive thinking results to positive actions. Good thinking is confident, because it makes conscience clear; it’s a solution seeking thought. Indisputably is indomitable. That situation, job or career, if you can think well about it, it will turn out good. Our thought about things is what they often manifest. Anything you think well of, will certainly turn out good. It’s good to picture something, but have a good picture before venture. Thinking only what is good has the power to make the rest of your life the best of life. Positive thinking creates positive things, and if consistent manifest greatness. If in that situation or circumstance you think only the positive, you manifest the fruit with time. You can’t think right and act wrong; you can’t think good and not manifest good seed. How you behave is actually seen in your thought. You can’t think negatively and act differently. Harbor good thought, good thinking makes you understand situation faster, it makes you smart and precise with objective. It places you on the positive side and on a brighter light to resolve challenge. When challenged, think about positive things, things that you enjoy. Things that gives the mind peace and happiness. Let the positive attitude of thinking what is good be developed from your subconscious mind, you natural regenerate strength to chase your goals. You are indomitable when the things that cripple others make you stronger, only good thinking can rejuvenate such ever winning attitude. The best reason for life is to live it. Good thinking helps you to live well and makes you indomitable

MAKE ONLY POSITIVE INPUT

The mind is like a slippery slope, which loops into successions of thoughts that makes us act continuously in a particular way until we consciously retract. Our activities and actions are decided by the mind. Our thoughts, either positive or negative are powered by the mind. Everything begins in the mind; the mind is the power house. To make positive input, is to think positive things. Life is a race; not inter-personal race, but internal race, “a race within self”. A race you run to be better than your yesterday, not to be better than someone else. This race demands all from you, everything in you. In this race, our impact determines how meaningful our journey, your journey is credited by your positive input. It’s very important to do more positive things therefore. Our positive input makes it possible for us to stay longer in the minds of men. When people remember your impact they think of you. In our journey we sow seeds, good and positive seeds that can grow into something good, the more seed we sow, the more rosy the journey become. Positive input is a seed, it grows with time. Until a seed makes flowers it doesn’t produce fruits, the fruit becomes tree, when it chooses to fall down and die. Only trees that produce fruits the planter prepares for next season. Positive thought is the only way to encourage positive input. Our gift to life is not a gift from man or from men to another. It’s a divine gift, from a divine source. It runs on duration of time why here. Positive input immortalizes us within the minds of men. Our thought, our actions and activities has a lot to do with our environment. Our environment affects us in so many ways, ranging from the mind to our activities. If the environment builds sincerity and conscience in us, it has given us the best of everything that we require for positive input. When positive input becomes our natural attitude we become indomitable, everything we do, our thoughts are always good and positive. Being positive and making positive input is great; it enables the universe to create ways for more of such opportunities. Positive input or intend is wisdom, it builds confident for the good things, it gives the sense of mission and satisfaction. Our attitude is powered by the mind, the better things we think about, the more positive input we make. Whatever external influence you can get to put your attitude back on the positive side, do it; it’s fast achievable through the thinking of positive things. Let your first most important goal be plugging into the mind with positive things, good thoughts. Something that will make you do more positive things, something that can make you gives more and allows the mind to power your attitude. It will make you indomitable and resourceful.

ALWAYS REMEMBER CHALLENGES ARE FOR A LITTLE WHILE

It’s needless to be irascible or irritable when facing challenges, because they are only for a little while. We the people, we hear a lot of things, we listen to a lot of things, mostly when facing tough situation or circumstances; pictures are been painted, nose are stretched, laps are parted, body being tapped all to express dismay, but one thing is certain; challenges are just for a little while. After the darkest of night comes dawn. Everything is programmed to change when saturated with this concept. The resilience we build knowing that the situation is temporal propels us towards consistency in life. One can only be indomitable if his believe and concepts are affirmed on positive during challenging times. Being foolish against pride, builds our believes to triumph. Humility is meekness when made a character. It gives deep understanding about situation or circumstance, it makes you stay expectant; Humility is security when it relates to life and living. Meekness is wealth, when you are meek you understand more and naturally put off from negative engagement or attempt. Pressure is pushy, it melts believe and makes you vulnerable, but if you can have it at mind that challenges are only for a short time, you will overcome. With humility and good observation challenges are mirage, the more you dare the more invisible they become. Pressure makes the ball to bounce, but the ball has to be full with air. If the vacuum is empty of air the ball will not bounce. Humility is like air to life when challenged, everyone wants to have a reason to nail you, even in the challenge, and so only humility can keep you from such disdain. Just a little while the crawling child gets to stand up and walk, but before the child can stand there must be pressure and a deep believe that he can, even when it may not be absolutely favorable at the time. Believe is very important, when nurtured in us it does wonders. No matter the situation, knowing that is temporal is a huge relieve. To be indomitable you need to have a good understanding about the situation and how it connect and control, things and people around you. Humility provides the right atmosphere for careful observation and understanding of the situation to stay indomitable. There is need to be keen to issues and to build a firm believe that challenges are indeed for only a short time. Those who get on well in life are people who create the circumstance that can enable them function well even in the mist of challenges. If you can ever think that problem is solvable, it will be definitely resolve. Our limitations can be made to become opportunity if we only believe it can. Challenges can only become obstacle if you bow to it. Nothing can teach you more than adversity, not even an academy professor. Opportunity don’t come with it worth attached to it, often they roll-in with challenges and circumstances that is capable of sweeping you off, if your believe is not strong. Believe you can and see how leveled the hills you making a mountain was.