NINE MAIN ELEMENTS OF PROFOUND POSITIVE CHANGES
Change don’t just happened, It requires a conscious application of effort. For a static object to be on motion it requires effort, something is always responsible for a change. Most often
change is triggered after a deep thought of its need. But sometimes it happens by our resolve, live challenges and obstacles. In whatever way change
occurs it always involves our thought and ability to consider other options
from what we are used to. Let's consider some elements the leads to profound
changes below:
CONSCIOUSNESS OF IDEAL CHANGE
Just as the thief; same is the farmer, the
artisan, the corporate workers, the jobbers, the politicians and even the
prostitute. Everyone is conscious of what they do, even when they can’t boldly
identify themselves with it. No matter where you stand right now; if you turn
back, you begin to move in the opposite direction. If a promiscuous person
wants to change, he or she must think deeply beyond self-smartness and in
honesty embrace attitudinal change. Change
consciousness begins in you, first person singular (i.e in me and in us).
Without the willingness of the mind, no ideal change can be enforced. Anything
that makes a man gullible makes him horrible, which ends him up in terrible
situations. The true satisfaction of a meal doesn’t come from over feeding
oneself. At a point everyone feels it’s about time; it’s about time to sleep,
it’s about day break, it time for breakfast. Our conscience is our true time
keeper. Just as every action produces a reaction. The force that opposes object
in motion must be greater than or equal to the weight of the object. To change
from whom you are, to what you want to become; your willingness towards change
has to be greater or equal to the opposing forces that kept you on the wrong
path. Until your conscience is soaked into thinking about and walking towards
change, you may never have ideal change. The conscience must be ready; you need
a deep thought on; the pains, the lost opportunities, the wasted years, the
fear holding you back, why you never been yourself, the peace you never had and
the comfort that had never been sustained; also the joy that await your change
and the peace it exude. Nobody likes to change into tougher times, only nature
takes people there. We all wish for a change that will make us better, a change
with series of innovation, a change in a positive direction. Anyone that never
sees anything wrong with what they doing can never truly change. To have an
ideal change, your conscience must remind you of your fouls. If you don’t feel
sorry, you can’t repent. At the turning point, if you still love the happiness
you derive from the wrong things; your change will not be permanent, you are
only horribly gullible. That is like over feeding oneself, you ate your
tomorrow breakfast at tonight dinner. When morning comes, what will serve as
breakfast? When the music is on in the night club; never be ignorant thinking
that morning will never come. Make haste why the dance last. Consciousness of
what we truly need, leads us to ideal change. To have ideal change we must think
right towards what really matter to us now and the next generation. If it’s
truly good for us, it will be beneficial to the next generation. Ideal change
makes one better every day and its sustainable, but its conscience driven.
CHANGE OF THOUGHT
Thrusting an object into a pool of water is a
similitude description of how anything absorb into the mind as thought,
reproduce effect; just in similar way as the water bodies spin into motion.
Whatever goes into the mind always have ability to create result or action, be
it good or bad imagination. Once you allow a particular thought to dominate
your mind, it will produce result; success or failure alike. Primarily so many
things the mind can conceive, but if change
must be profound in a positive dimension, we have to make good thought to be
predominant in our subconscious mind. So whenever a positive vista thrust in,
it can light up our light. If the light is sustained and disciplined, it
produces continuous effect that leads to sustainable growth and development.
Whatever you can imagine, you have equal tendency to achieve. Once the same
thought is sustain over times, you can make it a visible reality. “The mind
sees it first”. Once you are mindful of it, you unconsciously give it
permission to happen. Having a consistent thought about a particular thing
makes it familiarized with the mind. It endears faith to increase and make
result come quicker than ever assumed possible. To make a positive change, the
mind should be made to get used to positivity. The more positive our thinking
the better our resources is put into effective use for sustainable growth.
Positive Changes don’t just happen, man consciously make it or lose it through
ignorance. Anybody can have a positive result from change, if they can allow positive
things to dominate their minds. To enable positive thinking one have to
disengage negative thought whenever it creep into the mind. Having a positive
change has a lot to do with the position of the mind both in sweet and
challenging times. A man’s thinking controls his life; determines his actions,
his comportment, his ideology and his general well-being. The way we structures
our minds determines the intensity of our focus. Positive change can be greatly
achieved if everyone resolves within self to put their thinking right. Right
thought can pave the way for profound positive change at all times.
SURGE AFTER PEACE
For a farmland to produce a good harvest, it
needs to be prepared for planting; clear the bushes, “till” the soil or make
ridges. All these put together for the seed to have its necessities for
effective growth, same is likable to man when he surge after peace. “Peace is
like all of these process put together”. Man must seek for peace at all times
to enable him explore his surrounding and put to effective use his resources.
Peace is the foundation for sustainable growth and
development. Once there is peace there is tendency for a positive and effective
change. If the environment is void of violent the mind will have rest. In a
turmoil situation for instant, if the mind can conceive anything positive the
man will seek after peace. In such a condition the man determines his peace.
But here is another scenario: A corrosive situation; when the environment is in
disarray, man’s actions determines his peace. Either positive or negative
actions, whatever he does will have a resultant effect on him. In this kind of
situation the best way to produce better result is to surge after peace. Create
peace to produce a positive change. Without the desire to make peace at all
times, man’s potential and resources can’t be effectively utilized. “Peace is
the foundation for growth and development”, without it growth can’t be
sustained. Seeking peace with all men is the best possible way yet, to have
meaningful growth. Profound positive changes can only be encouraged greatly by
surging after peace; both at the individual or personal level and likewise
group or in the society. Peace is beautiful; it makes the mind to attain rest
at often times. Anyone that determines to change positively must surge after
peace. Peace is a basic element for sustainable growth. Often times good
strategies fails where there is turmoil, corrosion of trust, disarray and war.
Seeking after peace means you are ready to go all out to ensure growth and
development. Change without a strong desire to surge after peace, can never be
a positive change. Peace is the wheel that convenes great positive changes; it
prepares the way for growth, partnership, and development of any people. Our
environment can always get better if we make; surging after peace for us and
for others, as a part of our character. Things can always get better in a
peaceful atmosphere; peace is basic and has so much impact in any profound
positive change. Seeking after peace means you are ready to compromise, you
willing to understand and be understood. It means you are ready not to take criticism
personal, enabling the power to listen to others. It’s the willingness and
humility to learn new ideas from others. It means to hate confusion, war and
turbulent. Peace is the best thing that can happen before and during change
that can guarantee sustainable growth and make change profoundly positive.
EMBRACE OTHERS OPINION
A Surfie surfer that doesn't have understanding
about the direction of the wind can’t ride on the sea waves nor surf really
well. Whatever you imagining right now, someone somewhere have done something
close to it or similar you can learn from or improve upon. Your idea is not
enough to guide you through every storm. The surfer needs to learn and train
severally to become perfect. Nobody is born a good surfer. When you listen to
people there is nothing to lose, when you don’t you gain nothing. Most of the
greatest known innovation of great inventors were sometime an opinion (from
people), an imagination, an assumption or suggestion. Erm, they didn't end at
those levels, they pursue and step on to learn from those that been familiar
with the path-way. Change is a request the mind makes to every other part of
us, which they are expected to comply with. But the mind must be willing to
learn from every clue, signs and symbols to achieve the genuine essence of the
change. Everything visible is truly related to one another. Everything in an
ecosystem relates to one another. They need each other to function better,
human inclusive. If we begin to expect better things from people, good things
will begin to happen. Accepting or loving people means more than words; it’s
trusting their words, embracing their opinion, and working together with them
even when you don’t see everything yet. Doubt makes change to suffer set back;
it causes delay and sometimes makes it never come. To have a profound positive
change, there should be unity of purpose. To unite with someone or people; you
must accept the reality that you don’t know everything. You must be open to
learning new things, and ever willing to learn from others. You must be willing
to be a channel not a reservoir. You must avoid winning debate, from places
where you suppose to learn. Avoiding argument doesn't mean you don’t have
something to argue about, it simply means you know when to stop milking the
cow. To learn from everyone gives better result than a single source. Knowing
and noting reduces mistakes. Many people are very eager to supersede others, as
a result they fail to give attention to common clues, signs or symbols that
will enable them have a profound change. Everybody have something good; either
they don’t present it well or their essence is yet to manifest. It’s very good
to be on the lookout. Embracing good opinion has nothing to do with who is
saying it, but everything to do with the sense behind it. People ignorantly
jettison good counsel because of who convene the idea, which is one ignorant
that destroys profound positive change. The truth stay with those that seek
after it, not those that assume it lives in them. If you look after the good in
people you will definitely fine something. Many people are only after the
worst, fault founder and confusion seekers by nature. They think the worst
before they attend; they just don’t have a stand with ideal change. They
challenge what they have no idea about; they argue what they don’t have good
facts about. Accepting others opinion or listening to them doesn't make you less
or weak, it only provides a wider scope for different varieties and larger poll
of options with which you can achieve profound change with positive effect.
Even why everyone don’t listen to you, listen to everyone you will learn more
and become better.
LOVE
There is this connection that sparks up
conversation, communication, compassionate feeling and consideration. It’s a
feeling that is inherent, a genuine feeling from the heart. The feeling that
bears the sight for vision and good things. The kind that sees hopes, that
exactly the one that leads to profound positive changes. The feeling of
affection, connection and compassion, are all these encapsulated in Love; the
simply reason why love is deep in pain and pleasure. When love becomes so shallow it stands no test, it begins to
dazzle around in pretense, which is why change without love can’t be profound
in a positive way. Great things are best achieved through compassion. Many
people under maid the strength of love “because the word itself has suffered
abuse”. Love is the only functional guideline given to man. It’s embedded with
all other rules for genuine and better living. If love fails, the man loses his
focal point. A talkative have no love, is like a gossipy. They rejoice at
propagating and fabricating information living their guideline at the mercy of
the wind. They lose their compassionate side, chasing after smiles from the
horse. What matters to them is “the Tyre was punctured, not how to fix the
tube”. Without love profound change can only end up a wish. People build up
logical mountains for others; truly there is no mountain that is not visible.
If you show love you will understand there was never any mountain. The best
thing you can do for anybody to expect profound change is to love them. Love
leads to positive changes, people gives their best when they feel loved. When
everyone has a point to make or a drama to present "why should it be you”,
you feel trapped. But if there is any ray of light, you will see your direction
clearly, if you chose to love yourself. Self-love is wisdom, nature is wiser
than men. The wind belongs to nobody and has no price tag. Don’t ever allow
anybody make you feel bad about yourself. You are just good the way you are;
you may not have reached their expectation, but know your dimensions and
appreciate it. If you don’t know your dimension, you join them to mock
yourself. Changes don’t happen overnight, self-love is a genuine step towards a
profound positive change. If you don’t love yourself you can’t love others, and
can’t really have sustainable positive change. Change begins with love and love
can only begin, if positive changes will be sustainable.
AVOID THE ENEMY LINE
Human is a very complex creature, with a lot of
influence and factors that affects them. These factors can affect his
accomplishment, drive and confident. They are both external and internal
factors, external factor create room for internal factor, which dominate the
man’s thought with negativity. Because we concern about the “mind development”
we will centre our views on the internal factors that affects the man
negatively; the enemy within. The greatest enemy of a man is the enemy within,
the negative thought that always have something bad to say. That voice that
condemn you even before you try something. The voice that point at failure
always. The voice that count your deficiency, whenever you want to do something
new. The voice that says you can’t always, that your true enemy. The voice has
the ability to keep you on a sport if you don’t build resilience against it.
“What if” it’s not an option, don’t listen to it. “Nobody have ever done it
before” doesn’t make things unapproachable, don’t let it hold you back. The
strange voice will make you never to dare anything; at the end when you fail
the same voice will accuse you of failure. Avoid the voice; you lose nothing to
be part of a system of change, you gain nothing if you don’t. The negative
voice is your enemy, build a wall against it. Avoid it completely, in life is
more honorable to fail than never dare. Failing in a particular thing don’t
make you a failure, chances are still there for victory if you can acknowledge
your enemy within and subdue it with positivity. There is no great man dead or
alive that is not professional failure, everybody you see have failed several
times. They only have one trick that has kept them going; they took charge of
their thought anytime they experience failure. Don’t cry over failure, those
that never dare should do the crying not you. You already know a way that leads
to failure, that a plus. The negative voice is your real enemy; if you allow
it, you be depressed, objectify, subject to fear and negative believes. It has
the ability to keep you on a sport or even pull you down. If you desire a
profound change decide to dominate the negative thought with positive
confession. How can you avoid something that is internal, something from your
thought? You must confess positive things; there is power in the tongue, the
tongue rules the life of a man. You must control your thinking and what you
feed your mind. You must avoid negativity from dominating your thinking. You
must put a stop to regretful thought and self-blame; believe it was you, that
why it happened to you and move on. You must avoid the sense of superiority over
others, so that when you fail you have a step backward to make instead of
falling so deeply. You must dominate your thought with positive things, if you
truly deserve a positive change. Life has its way, but the best way for man’s
growth is within him. Nobody knows what others are thinking so keep your
thought clean if you desire positive changes. Challenges don’t mean failure, so
don’t be down. You have got more than bad feelings inside of you, always see
countless reason to be joyful, positive things will begin to happen and
profound changes will come in no distance time.
BE ANALYTICAL
We all have people and things connected to us by
destiny. It’s not of choice, but divine. Our choices are made for us by nature.
But there are other things nature allows us to make choices, these once are
enormous and requires our understanding, observation and proper analysis of the
situation if our change must be profound. To have a positive change
irrespective of making a decision to change, one still need to observe those
visible factors that can lead to profound
changes. Analyzing the system or situation is necessary in other to achieve a
sustainable positive change. Being analytical makes you conscious of error. It
helps to review different solutions or approach. It provides clear road map for
positive change. Change can either be conscious (by man’s actions) or
unconscious (by nature), but for a conscious change to happen, man must set on
motion. He requires some level of discipline, and good decision to achieve
positive changes. For the man to make good decision for effectiveness, there is
great needs to completely analyze the change process, if he truly wants to have
a profound position change. A change that will be sustainable must be well
analyzed. There is great need to think through all other options or solution to
make a good choice towards profound change. Carefully analyzing different
factors and elements will help to monitor change, and as well provide step by
step approach to achieve a positive change. Factors like; environmental
influence, situations and resources available, need to be duly considered in
other to have a sustainable change. Without analyzing those factors and
conditions properly, change could be impediment due to system lapses. Analyzing
situation before decision or action is very important: It provides a wide range
of opportunities for various choices. It helps to minimize mistake and error.
It provides room for deep thinking and better choice. Like attitudinal change
for instance. A garage boy, that wants to be a lawyer need to analyze the
situation and what it requires. The change is possible, but he has to make the
right decisions with discipline, for this reason he need to analyze the change
process if the change must be effective. Profound positive change can be easily
sustainable if there is good understanding of the system, with proper system
analysis.
CALMNESS
Slack confidence is one of the features of fear,
but is gain saying to assume calmness as fear. Calmness is demonstrating
gentility. Calmness is quietness or relaxed emotion even in the mist of
anxiety, excitement or challenges you still maintain your cool. A calm person
determines situation, situation don’t determine them. They are completely
responsible for the outcome of their actions. They are like, running on a
control speed. Calmness enables accuracy and minimizes
mistakes. To genuinely change for better there is great need to be a calm
person. Meekness is strength, to truly have a clear understanding and knowledge
about anything. If you don’t humble yourself, you could lose the opportunity to
know those little important signs that will enhance you through the process of
change. Conscious change is a deliberate move, which requires understanding
before it can be effective. You need calm mind to learn, patience to strive.
For a positive change to be sustainable, it requires patience and calmness to
overcome the initial obstacles. With calmness you learn more of the process and
how to ensure effective change. If you are not the maker of something, you must
learn of it to know about it. You can’t assume change goes on a direction you
are not familiar with. Like a footballer; in the pitch of play, he can’t push
the ball more than his speed can control. For him to keep the ball in control,
he must watch his speed. The reason we need to be calm during change is to
avoid indelible mistakes, mistakes that can cost you much. Change is never
sudden, never be in a hurry during the process. It could be sudden to others,
but for you it has long began even in your conscious mind. There are a lot of
reasons to be calm; you learn well and better if you are calm through a
process. Calmness endears proper preparation and accuracy. Every genuine change
requires proper foundation, which is the basic (understanding the process). The
different stages and process must be calmly understudied and well understood,
before change can be maintained and sustained. Calmness limits challenges, and
increase wisdom. “Divinity is gentility”, calmness is access gateway to
gentility. If you are not humble at heart you can’t access divine things. To
have a profound positive change you must be well guided. Calmness means humble
enough to learn through the process, which will enhance performance and
accuracy. When you are calm, you easily notice mistake or unusual situation in
the change process. It enables you to have a sustainable positive change.
CHALLENGES OR TOUGH TIMES
During the time of flight, the termite insect
flies in familiarization with the atmosphere, in the process they lose their
wings. They are faced with challenges; they lose their wings, but they unite
and re-strategize. They consider proximity to food and make their shelter until
they regain their wings. Same it’s the eagle, the eagle goes to the mountain
top, un-feather self and wait for about months, running into 150days to regain
its feathers, to enable it live more years and hunt
for prey. All these are real tough times and it truly lead to great positive
changes. Profound changes are best achievable during tough times, when there is
no option than to move forward. If it’s the next thing don’t avoid it even when
it’s not suitable, move forward. Don’t consider past, humility helps in tough
times. The termite after they lost their wings, they plan in silence and make
themselves a safe heaven. Even the eagle gets as much prey as possible to the
mountain of rebirth. The seed must decay to gain root and grow well. Challenges
generate great passion for positive change. If the challenge comes, don’t spend
all the time talking it. Accept it and move forward, along the line of movement
it will drop off. No challenge can stand the force of inherent change. A change
you decide from your inside, if a child never makes a move to crawl even the
mother can’t force the child. There must be willingness in tough times to have
a genuine change. It’s very important to be calm, because a lot of things will
talk to you, try to convince you. But remember you have a guardian Angel,
always with everyone. It’s humble and can never act nor speak in pride, so
avoid acting and doing anything out of pride. With humility comes greatness and
only tough times humble men often times. It makes them see a different picture
that they could never had seen without those challenging times. The termite
never knew they can work together to achieve such a big height. The eagle fears
survival yet they believe it’s possible. The seed felt of losing it all yet
gains everything after. Tough times are tough, but you only have a choice to
accept it and walk through it. If it will never challenge your mind, it will
never be called a challenge. Seat down and think; re-strategize like the eagle.
It’s funny though, but the most redeemable way to profound positive change is
humility. Calmness is the way; it leads to well-planned and organized structure
that can counter any challenge. The termites don’t continue bashing after
losing their wings, even the eagle goes to a silent mountain top for rebirth.
It’s ironical to say challenges or tough times makes people, but it’s true.
Greatness is embedded in challenges, reasons why soldiers are toughly trained.
They have to face tough training to truly stand out as good soldiers.
Challenges leads to profound positive changes, once you accept it, work it out
and positive changes will come.
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